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I wrote about the post-election impulse to turn inward
The day after the election, I planned to play Civilization VI all day. But first, I texted some friends. And in the space between those texts and giving into the escapist desire to play video games alone, I felt compelled to write something. The piece published in The Atlantic yesterday.
It deals with some of the ideas I’ve been thinking about for my book and how they apply In This Moment: American individualism, self-care as an isolating impulse, the long-term decrease of time spent socializing, the election by a majority of Americans of a profoundly self-serving person. Here’s an excerpt:
And now this: the reelection to the nation’s highest office of Donald Trump, a man who has attacked the very idea of a communal, democratic form of government, and who has indicated that he aspires to move the United States toward autocracy—auto, of course, meaning “self,” and autocracy being the concentration of power for and within the self. Self over others is one of Trump’s defining principles. In his first term as president, he used an office intended for public service to enrich himself. He has vowed to use it this time to take revenge on his enemies and—“within two seconds” of taking office—to fire the special counsel overseeing criminal cases against him.
Yet self over others, or at the very least self before others, has long been a prominent aspect of American culture—not always to Trumpian levels, certainly, but individualism for better and worse shapes both the structure of society and our personal lives. And it will surely shape Americans’ responses to the election: for the winners, perhaps, self-congratulation; for the losers, the risk of allowing despair to pull them into a deeper, more dangerous seclusion. On Election Day, the Times published an article on voters’ plans to manage stress. Two separate people in that story said they were deliberately avoiding social settings. To extend that strategy into the next four years would be a mistake.
Read the rest here. (It’s a gift link, you don’t need a subscription to read.)
—Signing off from my airport layover on the way to meet my best friends in Canada to see the Eras Tour. It’s good to be together. ✌️
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